The Comparison | Examples

The Comparison


We need prime examples of men who forgot how to communicate and women who forgot that men are abundant.

Drama Title & ScenarioJiejie's Take (The Unfiltered Review)
Boys Over Flowers (K-drama, 2009)Jan-di is constantly battling the mean girls and the entitled rival (Hae-soo) while Gu Jun-pyo issues the occasional limp defense. The ML here is the ultimate Unclaimed Prize. His inability to tell the entitled ex-fiancée to get lost is why Jan-di spent half the series soaking wet or publicly humiliated. Go get your man, Jan-di, and teach him how to use his words!
Heirs (K-drama, 2013)Kim Tan's mother (the ultimate second woman) and his fiancée (Rachel) constantly target the FL (Eun-sang). Kim Tan, while protective, is repeatedly shocked when the women he refuses to disavow keep being terrible. The lack of decisive boundary-setting by the entire male family means the women's main job is fighting for territory like it's the last slice of cake at the convenience store.
What's Wrong with Secretary Kim (K-drama, 2018)The wealthy rival trope gets a slight upgrade, but the underlying male apathy remains. Lee Young-joon's perpetual failure to definitively shut down the attention from other women is what allows the "childhood connection" drama to fester far longer than necessary. If you're going to be a genius CEO, at least be a genius at basic interpersonal conflict management. Secretary Kim deserves a bonus for enduring his personal drama.